A Gospel Guide for the Mom Who's Desperate for Change

Your invitation to trade defeat and fear for hope and joy as you follow the biblical road map to becoming the mom you're meant to be.

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a message from Abbey

Does this sound like your internal monologue?

We all want to be good mothers who raise good humans. But somewhere between the morning chaos and the bedtime battle, our flaws get in the way.

  • You react when you desperately want to be intentional.

  • You check out when you know you need to be engaged.

  • You lie awake at night replay your worst moments, convinced you’ve done irreparable damage.

If you worry about the effect of your sin and shortcomings on your kids, you aren’t alone. And more importantly, you aren’t beyond hope.

We all desperately want to be good mothers who produce good humans, but our flaws and habits get in the way. We're reactive when we want to be intentional. We check out when we need to be engaged. And at the end of a long day, our minds are often flooded with thoughts of self-condemnation.

Author and mother Abbey Wedgeworth has been there too. But she has an important message to share with fellow moms: Nothing is beyond redemption--not you, not your experience of motherhood, and not your kids' experience of your imperfections.

In Help! I'm Ruining My Kids, Abbey invites you to journey with her toward a place where God's grace frees you from a guilty conscience, his compassion ministers to your past and present hardships, and his Spirit transforms you to look more like Jesus.

With refreshing transparency, practical wisdom, and biblical encouragement, Abbey helps you to:

ABOUT THE BOOK

Are you worried that, despite your best efforts, you're messing up your kids?  Help! I'm Ruining My Kids is your invitation to trade defeat and fear for hope and joy as you follow the biblical road map to becoming the mom you're meant to be.

Identify and accept your personal limits

Develop realistic expectations for motherhood

Discover how to fight against mom guilt and the shame that comes with it

Create a comprehensive action plan for change

Learn to parent well as a work in progress

The good news is we can change--with a few practical tools and a whole lot of God's grace.

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Meet ABBEY WEDGEWORTH

Abbey is a wife, mother of three sons, and a Bible teacher who knows exactly what it feels like to lose it before 8:00 AM. She is the author of Held and the Training Young Hearts series.

Known for her popular parenting reels and honest teaching, Abbey is passionate about helping moms apply the riches of Christ to the messy, beautiful realities of raising children.

  • "Deeply practical and deeply theological as she points us to Jesus. This book is exactly what every mom needs to hear right now."

    Adam Griffin, lead pastor, Eastside Community Church, Dallas, Texas; host, The Family Discipleship Podcast; author

  • "This gospel guide confronts 'mom guilt' head-on!"

    Blair Linne, author, Made to Tremble and Yara the Brave and The Swirling Worry

  • "For anyone who’s ever felt they aren’t the mom they thought they would be, Abbey’s words are a healing balm to the disappointed soul."

    Kate Strickler, founder, Naptime Kitchen; author, I Just Wish I Had a Bigger Kitchen

  • "There’s something deeply therapeutic about the way she speaks truth, always wrapped in the language of the gospel. You won’t walk away the same; you’ll walk away lighter, steadier, and more rooted in hope."

    Rebekah Hannah, children’s ministry director, Redeemer LSQ in NYC; CEO, Anchored Virtual; author, The Secret to Confidence

  • "This book will meet you right where you are and remind you that the gospel truly transforms not only how we parent but also how we live as beloved children of God."

    Gretchen Saffles, bestselling author, The Well-Watered Woman

  • "A refreshing reminder that parenting isn’t powered by our perfection but by God’s presence, offering freedom, hope, and the assurance that he’s at work in our kids’ lives, even when we fall short."

    Megan Michelson, director, Birds & Bees

  • "Moms in need of a breakthrough will come away with lightbulb moments, a plan to break reactive patterns, and hope for moving forward in both motherhood and personal holiness."

    Emily A. Jensen, coauthor of Risen Motherhood and Gospel Mom

  • "This truly is a handbook and companion for every mom who wants to give and receive the gospel in her own heart and home."

    Jen Oshman, author; speaker; women’s ministry director

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Get Access to Exclusive Bonus Podcast

Order before March 17, 2026 to gain access to a special interview podcast hosted by Abbey.

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The podcast is designed to supplement the book with conversations between Abbey and her friends:

  • Laura Wifler (Help! I’m At the End of Myself)

  • Kate Strickler (Help! Comparison Is Getting the Best of Me)

  • Abbey Halderstadt (Help! This Isn’t What I Thought It Would Be)

  • Ann Wilson (Help! My Marriage Makes Motherhood Feel Harder)

  • Blaire Linne (Help! This Feels Too Far Gone…)

  • Caroline Saunders (Help! I Have No Clue What I’m Doing)

  • Hope Gordon and Chris Blanton (Help! My Past Hijacked My Parenting)